Straight from a text message when I told him OW (whom he now lives with) cannot pick up our child.
"And why is that? Look you really need to understand that OW is not the bad person in all this. She has the boys and my best interest at heart. You need to realize if not for her you wouldn't even have a place to live! We are trying our best to get along with you . So please grow up and see we need to get to a level to communicate. Get used to it"
Keep Calm and Happy On!
I realize now NC=No new hurts....
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day