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User Topic: Its my birthday today!
steadfast1973
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Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
catlover50
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Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday friend! Hope you have a nice evening.



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1729 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

happy birthday brother!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2827 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
VeryUncertain
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Member # 37845
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday, Blakesteele! I really hope the sadness lifts.


BS (Me): 38
WH: 43
2 beautiful, precious daughters: 4 & 2
Found out early Aug. 2012, separated 2/4/13, in R (?) since 7/2013.

Posts: 164 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: MD
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well Happy Birthday blakesteele my friend!

Remember....Youth is fleeting but immaturity lasts forever!

Thank you for sharing yourself with us. You are a kind person with a good heart and I wish well.

LA

And Happy Birthday to you as well hopeful18! Best wishes!

[This message edited by LA44 at 7:46 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday.


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17311 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord.....help me return the favor to these folks for all of their kind well-wishes and support they offer to me. You know how much pain they have and are enduring and working through....and they still find the energy to help me up as I stumble. Words in this post will not suffice....so I pray I recognize other opportunities as they arise. Amen.

Goosebumps.....that is what I have as I read even more posts to me.

My sadness has lifted....started with snuggles with my wife, then ya'lls support, then friends at work, then my favorite meal prepared for me by my wife, handmade gifts from my girls, then more posts here!

I want to hug all of you!

Such kindness.....such support. A real blessing.

Humbly yours,
Blakesteele

[This message edited by blakesteele at 8:07 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3663 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday To You!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Skan.

It is wonderful you and Mr Skan are volunteering at an upcoming Retrouvaille. Having real life folks, such as you guys, finding the courage and motivation to assist is a key component of this effective program.

I will say specific prayers as you take on this challenge.

Peace.


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3663 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Arnold01
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a few days late, but I'm wishing you happy birthday regardless! Hope your sadness lifts, and in the meantime know how much all of us on SI appreciate your openness and counsel and wisdom.

Wishing you all the best!


D-Day: June 2013 discovered two-month EA/PA
NC established: August 2013
Reconciling

Posts: 120 | Registered: Jul 2013
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Arnold01....was so nice of you to chime in.....was nice to recieve it! Your comments are TOO kind...but it IS my birthday and I thank you for this present!

[This message edited by blakesteele at 2:28 PM, February 13th (Thursday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3663 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
finallyfree2011
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Member # 37998
Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!


Me - WS
H - BH

D day - July 2011 after a 4 year relationship with OM

Reconciled and renewed our vows on our 22 Anniversary in June 2012


Posts: 64 | Registered: Jan 2013
Hannah25
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Member # 42198
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!


ME: 35
WBF: 44
Together 11 years
DDay: 1/12/14
DDay2: 3/28/14

Posts: 64 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Ohio
cl131716
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Member # 40699
Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy belated Birthday! I'm sorry you were sad. I hope you feel better today!

BTW, my birthday was yesterday.


Me BS 31
Him WS 34 Trying4change
Together 3 years, married for one
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
"A clear and innocent conscience fears nothing."

Posts: 935 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BTW.............HAPPY BIRTHDAY cl131716!!!!


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3663 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
jjsr
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Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1629 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And happy belated birthday from me as well! I'm glad you ended up having a nice day, you deserve it!
:)


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 919 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
lovedmesomehim
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Member # 25743
Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!! Happy Birthday!!!

You are well thought of, Blakesteele!

Lovedmesomehim


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