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User Topic: Anniversary is tomorrow
NikkiD
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Concerned  Posted: 9:40 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is the 2nd one we have spend in limbo. The 180 is in full effect and had been made easier because his phone is cut off. He called me yesterday from a random number to check on the kids and said I could call back if there was an emergency.

Not sure how I feel about it about...kinda meh...


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
Pass
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Meh" is better than heartbroken. You should be happy with your progress.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2142 | Registered: Jan 2013
NikkiD
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Meh" is better than heartbroken. You should be happy with your progress.

That is a decent way to look at it! Thanks!


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
Getting to Happy
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Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Nikki, sorry he is such a douche'. I am glad the 180 is working it's magic on you. Indifference is a good place to be with someone who is emotionally abusive.

Take some time for you today, maybe a mani-pedi? Plan a fun evening with your kiddos? Make today about your healing and finding peace in you and your kids lives.

I'm rooting for you, have a great day dear Nikki!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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