Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: confusedwife32 (44902)

Divorce/Separation Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Release the Kraken
hexed
♀ Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How's that Kraken this morning?

Stripper whore thought that she was getting a pony not a Kraken


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
newlysingle
♀ Member
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, he really is a mess. I'm do sorry Tesla. I'm hoping he can pull his shit together for Teslet's sake.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 887 | Registered: Mar 2013
sparkysable
♀ Member
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Ironically, his health insurance was terminated yesterday at midnight as well. (Which he never informed me was going to happen...I only knew because I was periodically checking with the carrier.)
So he didn't even bother to tell you that your son no longer has health insurance? And had you not been checking on this on your own, you could have not found out until next time you took him to the doctor and they were like "um, he has no health insurance anymore..." What a piece of shit he is.

she fully expects that he will be incarcerated.
Good. And I hope you do not even feel bad about this.

Hopefully the letter saying, "Hey you dumb piece of shit, pay your money NOW or you are going to JAIL!" will spur him into action.
I bet it won't, because he's just that stupid.

Did you talk to your lawyer about bargaining to get your dog back?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3340 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
sparkysable
♀ Member
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need to decide soon if I want the CS modification to go through...like tomorrow...because if it is in my favor...the sooner I file that petition the better.
Do it!


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3340 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
itainteasy
♀ Member
Member # 31094
Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cannot believe how fucking stupid your ex-shat is.

He is living in denial. "This isn't a rental!" "I didn't lose my job!" "I still have Teslet on my insurance!" "Stripper Whore is smart!"

I hope you get Mosely back. And I hope your ex-shat enjoys jail.


Posts: 3371 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Softcentre
Member
Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You need to file that petition because even apart from the A:

- He''s a twat
- He chose to break into your house & steal your dog
- He chose not to pay the CS he owes Teslet
- He chose not to pay you
- He thinks stripper whore will never find out that he chose to lie to her about renting the house, rather than buying it (she''ll find out when he goes to jail and isn''t paying the rent )
- He chose to get drunk, take the mickey out of his work being generous & then chose to think they wouldn''t apply the rules to him
- He chose not to let you know about Teslet''s medical insurance lapsing
- He chose to ignore the court
- He chose to steal your dog (sorry, did I say that twice? )


See that whole list of choices he made? He thinks that he''s special and the consequences of his choices won''t fall on him, cos people always soften his fall, right?...Umm, no.

See, you aren''t doing any of this to him. He''s chosen it all for himself. He chose JAIL rather than to sort himself out. Who says he can''t do commitment? He''s committed himself to the path of unicorn farting, it''s a wonderful (if I just close my eyes tightly, stick my fingers in my ears, ignore reality and sing loudly) ass shatting life.

[This message edited by Softcentre at 1:54 PM, February 12th, 2014 (Wednesday)]


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 972 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
tesla
♀ Member
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only reason I would not file the petition to modify support is *if* it ended up reducing Teslet's support because the court chooses to allow his income number to be zero since he lost his job.

I'll wait to file the petition until he has another job if that is the case.

But after a couple of pointed questions to my lawyer, I am confident that the circumstances of the loss of his income will come into play and the court will still hold him accountable for the income amount.

Because what stupid fucking moron loses this kind of job and blows the opportunity to get it back?
So I told her to file the petition.

And as far as I am concerned, there is a special circle of hell reserved for this dipshit. It is reprehensible that he never informed me that Teslet's health insurance was being terminated. Shit happens to little kids...broken bones that require surgeries...jesus, a car accident can give you a medical bill of 1/2 million in no time. I just cannot fathom how the fucker sleeps at night.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
ajsmom
♀ Member
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Remind me, tesla - what does he do?

Did?


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21049 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
heartbroken_kk
♀ Member
Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, no job, means no money to pay the rent, means eviction notice, means have to find a new place to live, and dude, you have a DOG, good luck with that... perhaps Tesla will bail you out?


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
SBB
♀ Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is reprehensible that he never informed me that Teslet's health insurance was being terminated. Shit happens to little kids...broken bones that require surgeries...jesus, a car accident can give you a medical bill of 1/2 million in no time. I just cannot fathom how the fucker sleeps at night.

We have National Health Care / full medical in Australia - I can't imagine being under US health and NOT informing someone they are off my cover. You are right - how does that fucker sleep at night.

I'd wait for him to offer to bargain for Mosely. I wouldn't raise it.

Keep us posted Tesla. Be gentle with yourself - this WILL end some day.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5549 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
tesla
♀ Member
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy fuck. This shit is going to end up epic.

He's fucking delusional.
Here is the text he sent me:

Would it be okay if we swap weekends. I'm gonna jump on this storm and try and make some money. I may be gone longer, you know how storms can be. But with the income it generates I should be able to give you and Teslet a little more than I owe.

Uh. Excuse me? Did that mother fucker say 'give'??? That asshole has stolen from me and he's stolen from his son. And what the fuck happened to the "I'll pay you the amount I owe when I get my tax return and bonus in early Feb."

Oh yeah, we all know what happened to that shit. When the money came in, there were more pressing concerns than his fucking obligations.
Pieceofshitmotherfucker. And FTG to boot.

ajsmom, he worked for a power company. It was a *very* good job. Great benefits. This year he should have been up to 3 weeks paid vacation plus personal days. Opportunity for as much overtime as he wanted. Now he will have to be a contractor and chase storms and jobs again. No personal/sick days. No paid vacation. That shit was miserable. He will still be paid well, but it's blood money.

Will I switch weekends with him? Yes, guidelines say if he gives reasonable notice that I should...but we are going by the letter of the guidelines. The mother fucking letter. He can have the next weekend as his make-up weekend. If he's still out of town...too fucking bad, it's forfeit.

And no, I cannot bring up Mosley. He has to bring him up...but I have a feeling after stripper whore has to spend 2-3 weeks home by herself with that dog, she may very well tell ex-shat to give him back to Teslet.

Wow.
Why couldn't he have just paid when he had the money?


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Holly-Isis
♀ Member
Member # 13447
Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't there a pole Stipper can be dancing on? Besides his I mean. She's got to earn that pony somehow.

I imagine that her peroxide and hair spray budget alone calls for a second income.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11185 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
SBB
♀ Member
Member # 35229
Frustrated  Posted: 6:20 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I've reached the top of my WTF-ometer. I'm not at all surprised.

Still hiding behind that tree - his two brain cells have rubbed against each other and combusted.

I honestly don't think this is asshatery, he has lost his damn mind. Does he think these bullshit IOU's will hold up in court? That it means he won't be held in contempt?


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5549 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
ruinedandbroken
♀ Member
Member # 29250
Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only reason I would not file the petition to modify support is *if* it ended up reducing Teslet's support because the court chooses to allow his income number to be zero since he lost his job.
I'll wait to file the petition until he has another job if that is the case.

But after a couple of pointed questions to my lawyer, I am confident that the circumstances of the loss of his income will come into play and the court will still hold him accountable for the income amount.

Wow. I'm pretty sure my ex and yours are the same person. My ex also lost his job because he's an idiot and he now threatening to reduce child support because he new job doesn't pay as much as the one he lost. My attorney said that a judge might reduce it but that he may not because it was his own fault. She said she would subpoena his employment record and tell the judge all about it. :)


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
IrishLass518
♀ Member
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, I am pretty good at predicting how things like this go down, so here is my prediction:

Ex shat goes out chasing the storm to make money that he will never actually pay over to Tesla. While he is gone, Stripper whore gets lonely cause ya know, she only has herself to hang out with and she has been "abandoned" by ex shat, I give her 2 weeks before she has a special friend. Then, with Stripper whore gone and 2 CS orders looming, ex shat continues to work in self employment to avoid garnishing. He probably won't be around a lot after this. Oh and I predict Stripper whore calls Tesla to come get Mosley.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
peridot
♀ Member
Member # 18334
Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He may not be able to get out of his obligation just because he doesn't have a job. The amount he is supposed to pay might not change either.

At my divorce, the judge told my ex not to quit his job for a job at McDonald's because he would still owe the same amount of money.

It really depends on the judge but I can't imagine any judge liking a deadbeat.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4773 | Registered: Feb 2008
thebighurt
♀ Member
Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking that, with his suspension and then fuckup being let go, he has missed mega, mega OT this winter and Mega, Mega $$$$$$. What a
Pieceofshitmotherfucker

It will be hard for him to chase those jobs from jail!

FTG!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2328 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
k8la
♀ Member
Member # 38408
Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you should be even more strategic with that Kraken.

I think his visitation should be supervised until he completes the mandated rehab, PLUS tests clean consistently for six months during SUPERVISED visitation, and he should never get to drive Teslet anywhere.

That ought to smack some stupid out of him.


Posts: 149 | Registered: Feb 2013
PurpleRose
♀ Member
Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well he sure has created quite the pickle for himself, hmm?

I had a taste of this stress back in November when I heard the Dooosh wasn't working at his cushy govt job... The kind where you do a minimal amount of work and get paid reeeeally damn good money, lots of vacation time, and get to have a whore in the drawer as well!!

I don't have any details of his new job (even though the divorce decree clearly states he is legally required to tell me within 5 days... But hey who is counting?). I guess I am just glad he has a damn job!

I am sorry for the bullshit excuses he tries to use... Clearly the stripper-whore has sucked his brains right out.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3580 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
ButterflyGirl
♀ Member
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's bad enough they are lying, cheating pieces of shit, but when they are complete morons to boot? Man, that's frustrating.

I bet had exshat paid you $10 a couple times, he could have kept himself out of jail, but I have a feeling he is going in. And you know it's gonna be your fault if he goes to jail and can't work, right?

I get so confused how OW like the bitch in my case and StripperWhore put up with our exes losing their jobs. My STBX lost his second job too, and he's been working less than 20 hours a week at his first job. And of course I have to hear his bullshit excuses for not having money and not being able to pay child support or his half of extracurriculars. If he would get a real fucking job, that would be more money for him AND for our kids. How can he be such a lazy fuck? And now that he doesn't have my money to go spending on OW, I can't figure out her reason for sticking around. He's an abusive, mean little man, who lied to her and cheated on her too, and now he's also broke? What the hell does she see in him? Oh well, I guess they have to keep putting up with each other a while longer to justify destroying both of their marriages and families..


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2231 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
Topic Posts: 47
Pages: 1 · 2 · 3

Return to Forum: Divorce/Separation Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.