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User Topic: We know a little bit more about HB. The #'s are in.
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi All, I will be happy to send you the video. It's kinda trippy to watch. But when you substitute your WH for the monkey and the AP for the frog, it will all make soooo much sense.

This video helped me to understand the real dynamics of my WH's mindset and his nasty tryst in general. And it graphically shows you what was really going on...

Tooo DAMN FUNNY!!

Sometimes we need a bit of gallows humor to help the healing.

Just PM me, I shoot it your way.
TEE HEE


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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Posts: 1140 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
lostinthesouth
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@Getting to Happy I have to upgrade first I don't think I'm up to 51 posts yet...lol

Posts: 107 | Registered: Nov 2013
courageous
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry I don't have the link but I think I can probably find it. If you want me to explain it to you and why it help you can PM me.

The other thing that helped was imagining the MOW standing in the corner watching us. How she wasn't going to have my WH any more and that he was all mine. Each time I imagined her smaller and sadder/ pathetic until eventually I didn't need to do the visualization any more.

Of course my exwh ended up marrying the OW but I still see her as the frog.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 651 | Registered: Jan 2012
totalheartbreak
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please send me the video too.


Me: BH (30s)
Wayflost: WW (30s)
"Ever notice those that advocate anything for 'happiness' are perennially unhappy?"

Posts: 153 | Registered: Dec 2013
lostinthesouth
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@Getting to Happy I know what video you are talking about--watched it again --and yes--that is exactly how I should picture it!!

Posts: 107 | Registered: Nov 2013
Brokenbond13
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need to see this video!!! I can't PM yet though! Can someone send me the link please!!

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lostinthesouth
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@Brokenbond13 go to you tube and put in monkey and frog video..lol and then visualize it like GTH said-your wh as the monkey and the frog as the ap. Feel bad giving the frog the ap name--howorker is lower and slimier (is that even a word???lol) than the frog..lol she was just a convenient hole that was willing to do anything anywhere anytime. Wh probably should have left her some cash--she was that slutty. My question to wh was how another female can think so low of herself and have zero self respect for her body and morals. Yea--the frog is definitely higher on the food chain than she is

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