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User Topic: Feb 12th
mof2
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

February 12, 2013....the coward asked me for a divorce over the phone. I called my parents who live 400 miles away and got in the car to come up here. I don't remember too much that day after the bomb drop. I just remember being in the fetal position in my bed and crying like I've never cried in my life.

February 12, 2014....got up this morning, woke my kiddos up, fed our 2 dogs and our cat, took my kiddos to school and told them both that I loved them. Haven't shed a tear yet. This could possibly be a good day.


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
sage2004
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice! That is nice to hear! Have a wonderful day and enjoy that you are not having to be around anyone that hurts you.


BS ME (38)
WH (48)
09/05/2014 DIVORCED!!!!

WH had 2 affairs in first year of marriage


Posts: 236 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Georgia
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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RealityStinks
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My D was filed this morning. I hope I'm feeling the same way a year from now (hopefully sooner ).

So happy to read stories like this to know that it gets better.


Posts: 414 | Registered: Nov 2013
roarlouder
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today sounds like a GREAT day!!


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its already started well :)


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
mof2
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RealityStinks, it does get better. I promise! Just hang in there!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
GingerAle
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news! Keep that great day going


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 410 | Registered: Nov 2011
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs honey! My XWH asked me to marry him 2/12/11... But I woke up like you today- no care in the world. Life goes on!!!


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 638 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll echo those comments that its great to hear that over time, the hurt, pain and angst falls away to acceptance and maybe even happiness. Here's to a great day mof2! You deserve it!


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

Posts: 1110 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
Pass
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even if the rest of the day were to fall flat on its face, it will be better than last year by a metric shitload. Enjoy what you can!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1927 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was so glad when that first year of "firsts" was over. Post DD first christmas, first birthdays, first everything. Year 2 was so much easier. 2 years since DD for me in a few weeks (18m from Final S) so I'm heading into my third year post DD.

I'm still mourning but healing nicely. Life is good.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5558 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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