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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You would be great friends if you'd just take the time to get to know her

She kind of reminds me of you

What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel

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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It starts with...

"Wow... this is weird... this psycho woman at work got my phone number off the company directory and keeps texting me. She's like 50 years old and really ugly"

Later on...
"I only added her on facebook to be nice. I still have to work with this woman! I'm sure you want me to keep my work contacts!"

And ends...

"Look, I said I'm sorry a thousand times already! What else do you want me to say?"

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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AP was a friend of mine/ours:

On what it was that he liked about her, "I thought she was like you."

On what he told her about me/our relationship: "I said I loved you, and she said she loved you, too. . ."

He said he had admired her, and when I asked about what (considering she is mainly a SAHM who lives on facebook, drinks too much, and has a very PT job working the front desk at the gym), he couldn't come up with anything. Not one thing.

And, "We felt so bad about what we were doing to our families. We talked about it constantly. "

About 1.5 months in, that she had googled affairs, and realized they were having one!

And finally, "It was really slow and gradual from the first email. .. very tentative." And then, very shocked when he put together the timeline and it was 2 weeks from the email to "I have feelings for you," and two more weeks to screwing. Yeah -- super cautious -- if you are a rabbit.

[This message edited by bionicgal at 11:54 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday)]

me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.

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Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about chapters 577 and 578, "You stopped trying, so I did too", and my personal favorite, "I didn't feel attractive anymore, and... (fill in the blank)".

Me (BS): 27
Her (WS): 24

DDay #1- 6/09 PA
DDay #2- 3/13 EA

Still riding the roller coaster of ambivalent limbo.

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