AP was a friend of mine/ours:
On what it was that he liked about her, "I thought she was like you."
On what he told her about me/our relationship: "I said I loved you, and she said she loved you, too. . ."
He said he had admired her, and when I asked about what (considering she is mainly a SAHM who lives on facebook, drinks too much, and has a very PT job working the front desk at the gym), he couldn't come up with anything. Not one thing.
And, "We felt so bad about what we were doing to our families. We talked about it constantly. "
About 1.5 months in, that she had googled affairs, and realized they were having one!
And finally, "It was really slow and gradual from the first email. .. very tentative." And then, very shocked when he put together the timeline and it was 2 weeks from the email to "I have feelings for you," and two more weeks to screwing. Yeah -- super cautious -- if you are a rabbit.