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dontknowwhyme
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I enjoyed hearing a poem from this poet with OCD. Warning: It does have the F word in it once.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnKZ4pdSU-s&feature=player_embedded


BS 38
FWW 37 (fireandice)
Married 13 Years - Together 20
D-Day1:Jan 08 (EA OM#1)
D-Day2:8-15-08 (EA/PA OM#2)
DS12, DS9
D-Day3:11-3-10
Divorced 1-27-11
Remember, you don't drown from being thrown in the water. You drown from staying in it.

Posts: 987 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whoasticks, Scooby. That was incredible.

A friend of mine with OCD told me when he first realized he was in love, he only had the urge to touch his boyfriend's hand. All of the other touching/tapping urges disappeared when his boyfriend was near. "That's how I knew," he said. He said the touching and tapping of objects was to ward off danger, to connect to something safe. And in his boyfriend, he found something safe.

Sometimes, I remember him telling me this and get jealous. When was love ever a no-brainer for me? If I'd had a sign like this, maybe then I wouldn't struggle so much, especially on the bad days when the house is ripped apart (yes, we're still working on the flooring project ) and he's forgotten for the third time that I have an appointment in the morning and oh my GOD, were you raised in a barn?

Wouldn't it be nice sometimes to have this sort of moment of clarity? This... tidiness of thought?


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
dontknowwhyme
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That moment of clarity is what I like most about it. If everyone could experience that it would make things so much easier.


BS 38
FWW 37 (fireandice)
Married 13 Years - Together 20
D-Day1:Jan 08 (EA OM#1)
D-Day2:8-15-08 (EA/PA OM#2)
DS12, DS9
D-Day3:11-3-10
Divorced 1-27-11
Remember, you don't drown from being thrown in the water. You drown from staying in it.

Posts: 987 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
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