And when I asked him why, he said, "Because I enjoyed it".
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...
Took just about anything that wasn't nailed down up to and including ripping the flat screen TV off our bedroom wall.
He left me with the family room furniture, kitchen items and the bed in the spare room. That was it.
I got my lawyer and the police involved and you guessed it - it was a civil matter. They did, however, give me "permission" to change the locks.
Yeah. That would be it.
ETA: Then months later, he asked me if I wanted to "buy" our bedroom furniture from him. That would be the furniture on which he bedded several of his OW. He has big, steel balls I tell ya.
[This message edited by ajsmom at 9:20 AM, February 13th (Thursday)]
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!
See...she was complaining about customers and wanted to punch one in the face, so his response was can you punch my wife in the face? Her response was as long as you don't call the cops.
We are a middle class family. I was so angry...that just reminds me of some white trash Jerry Springer shit.
Talk about disrespect.
He also did things with her kids and left ours home. Later he accused me of ruining his friendship with her oldest son.
eta-Jimbo, that is one of the most fucked up things I have ever heard. (((hugs)))
[This message edited by million tears at 9:31 AM, February 13th (Thursday)]
Married 27 years. Together 29.
3 children 24, 21, 14
OW sex addict and romance addict according to MC.
So, he essentially pimped me out for blackmail purposes.
He didn't realize that I would also find out about his other secret life - anonymous hookups with other men. That knowledge rendered his attempted blackmail ineffective.
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
[This message edited by cancuncrushed at 11:05 AM, February 13th (Thursday)]
A short time later, the family went camping for a week about 45 mins from the house. She wouldn't say overnight at the campsite because she was 'studying for a test' she was taking a week later. Again, I thought she was so dedicated.
Little did I know, she just didn't want to be with me.
One - telling me he wanted to be with me, work on the marriage and us going to MC while he was having an undisclosed LTA with a married woman he met on AfF.
Two and worst - the week I went back to work after having our daughter, he invited OW over to the house, let her hold my baby, then proceeded to have sex with OW on our living room floor. Our daughter was nearly stillborn, in the NICU for 2 weeks and I was an anxious mess about having to go back to work. He also called OW from the hospital and was having sex with her while I was pregnant. We're divorcing now, in case you're wondering.
He failed to tell me BEFORE we were married that he was a bisexual cross dresser and like to parade in front of the windows in my clothes.
He threatened to punch me in the face when I said I had questions about his cheating.
For the third year I was hospitalized for uncontrollable migraines, he had to ask his friends if he should visit me in the hospital.
He told me"at least if you had Cancer we'd know what to do" (asshole was doing the neighborhood gutter slut while I was throwing up daily)
When they discovered that I had 11 spots of skin cancer (7 lesions on my face) he stated "did they get all those things off your face yet?"
After I moved out he has never tried to see our grandchild... POS!