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User Topic: Valentine's Day last year!
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unbeknownst to me, me and the OW were both receiving gifts on Val's day from my now ex.

I'm greatful for meaningful and loving people in my life who are authentic and real.

The best Valentine's gift is love for myself.


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
HurtsButImOK
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Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 1:57 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So true. I consider this unexpected change in life to be my opportunity to establish the best love affair ever - self love!

Happy Valentines Day!


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
LoveHerStill
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Member # 31504
Default  Posted: 3:53 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to my favorite italian restaurant on valentines day with my brother. He has, and always will love me!


Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.


Posts: 455 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm taking my friend to lunch. Her husband tragically passed away last year in January. She needs some cheering up. I have big shoes to fill, he was a gem! Faithful for over 20 years to her!
Hmmmm, do I get her flowers today???? Seems kind of weird from a heterosexual girlfriend....
Maybe some ...wait for it

chocolate covered strawberries!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Valentine's Day to all of you loving, wonderful people at SI.


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The best Valentine's gift is love for myself.

THIS is a gem of a quote! I agree wholeheartedly.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

People keep asking me how I'm doing today and I say, I'm fine! The Gnat never bothered to make Valentine's different than any other day. He pretty much dismissed me and was usually out of town. That's how our anniversaries went too. I'm meeting a friend for apps and drinks tonight them coming home alone to watch movies. Sounds much better to me anyway.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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