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User Topic: He wants to go to MC- today
Chippednotbroken
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I filed and he was served Tuesday. He wants me to go to MC today. I feel like I'm still in crazy town. He just makes me angry. Why on earth would I want to go to MC? In my mind I haven't been married for a long time. He says he can't even think of dating. He had a LTA while I was pregnant.
Crazy town and he is the mayor.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

Posts: 303 | Registered: Aug 2013
devistatedmom
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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ignore. Crickets. NC. Whatever you want to call it...NO WAY!!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5521 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crickets.
He's nervous now that he's been served and is trying to hoover you back in.

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6525 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
dmari
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.

Crickets ...


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2270 | Registered: Oct 2012
Chippednotbroken
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Member # 40170
Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah you all will love this, I ended up going. It was his counselor who asked him why he had me there. Then proceeded to tell him to leave me alone, stop texting me and move on with his life. It was actually kind of nice. Don't think it worked but hey whatever.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

Posts: 303 | Registered: Aug 2013
devistatedmom
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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope it helped you feel better about your decision. Now, NC him. If his IC sees it and is saying it, he isn't doing the work he needs to do to be a proper husband to you.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5521 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Chippednotbroken
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Member # 40170
Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep right back to crickets. It was just nice to hear someone else tell him that there is no reason for me to be with him and that he needs to focus on himself and let me heal.
He of course texted me a few hours later that he has a gift for me so it seems he still isn't paying attention.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

Posts: 303 | Registered: Aug 2013
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