[This message edited by cl131716 at 1:43 PM, February 14th (Friday)]
But, she is 20 years younger, thinks she is gorgeous, and stroked my H's ego. She told him he was a sex god and she had never had anyone as skilled as he was.
I am not bothered about her outside looks as much as I am bothered by her black heart, her hypocritical life, and her ability to hurt others without any regrets. She lives by some manual on how to be a slut and act like a queen.
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.
I on the other hand tell the truth. So if you act like a stupid fuck then I'm going to tell you to stop acting like a stupid fuck, not tell you that you are the smartest man I know and I'm lucky to have you. If he cant live with that his loss.
You really need to quit putting you into the equation of his why. You had nothing to do with it.
Latest DD - April 2013, PA
Aside from Hiawatha-of-the-Smudge-Bundle, he had ongoing romps with a stick figure covered in acne who looked like Olive Oyl, a snub-nosed barely legal party girl, an obese and downright fugly Wiccan goddess, and many greasy and disgusting groupies he would stumble upon in his travels.
He pretty much covered the waterfront.
[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:17 PM, February 14th (Friday)]
Until you realize this wasn't about you at all. There are always better looking people out there. There are always skanky whores who have no qualms about hooking up with married men. The decision to cheat isn't based on what's "out there," it's due to what is or isn't INSIDE the WS.
Me: WH, 50
Her: BW, 50
D-day: 12/27/2013 (about A that happened 14-15 years ago w/coworker)
Does this bother me? I confess it does a little now. Early after Dday it bothered me allot. Now not so much.
ETA: Just heard a term that makes total sense: Manic Pixie Dream Girl. That's what at least one of his EAs was like… Maybe that was his ideal… But things are changing now, and his ideal is a warm safe stable home with a family waiting, a place he can come home to everyday. No matter how I look. I'll never be as physically pretty as his MPDG, or as dreamy, but this is what he wants out of life right now, so…
[This message edited by silverhopes at 7:17 PM, February 14th (Friday)]
OW 1: overweight, not attractive (although she sure thought she was) older than me, but put him on a pedistal and hung all over him. I had to witness it in the beginning when they were "just friends"
He also had women send him topless photos to his cell and I'm sure there was some sexting going on. Not to brag, but I have a very nice 34D. These women were much older, very unattractive, one was extremely heavy and the other was average built, very saggy small chest... I had the pleasure of seeing them and their cute little messages to him. Apparently they both thought they were pretty sexy. He still doesn't know they why sent them to him. They must have had the wrong #. Yeah, that would explain why one sent them on his birthday with the message "hey birthday boy, something to make your day"... topless pics.
So why did he throw it all away for a low life!!! Because he became broken when his very mean dad died and loss of a job for a year!
So with that being said it bothers me very much! She is a low life and mentally ill. It is simple to us not to cheat because we have morals! The OW has none!
What I do feel wonderful about is that I am a great person and I can walk around town with my head up high!