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User Topic: The best part of VD is I got my date!
dmari
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Court date, that is!!

One minute before entering my therapist office, I check my email on my phone. I read an email from my attorney that said our court date is on May 29!! I walked into her office and screamed with relief and joy that it will soon be officially over.

The timing (although it took long enough) is perfect. It's after my spring semester and before my birthday in June! I am so grateful and excited.

Emotionally I am done done done done done done with stbx. The court will hopefully enforce financial obligations regarding the kids. This is the part I am looking forward to. I need him to be financially accountable to the kids and if he is not, then at least I can follow with contempt.

This is a true gift of love to myself ~ my future, my life, my freedom!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
I FINALLY GOT A COURT DATE: 5/29/14!!

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!! What a great Vday present!!!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22649 | Registered: Aug 2011
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you Dmari!!


BS(me) 46, kids DS 17, DD 14.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5225 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Sparkles
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good news! It's a nice feeling when you take a step forward.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: In a better place
jackie89
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Soo jealous!

Can't wait until this day comes!


BW,me - 46
STBXH - 47

Separated

When a person shows you who they are, believe them - Maya Angelou


Posts: 415 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Chippednotbroken
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

April14th for me, although if he won't agree to something's I guess it could take longer.


Me BS 32
STBXH 34
3 kids
Divorcing, though he isn't on board.
DDay July 13'

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