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User Topic: Found the proof
143ANF
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been having major anxiety, things weren't lining up.

Found the proof I needed.

I. Am. Done.

[This message edited by 143ANF at 12:53 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]


I've gotten off the crazy train and I'm loving living life.

Posts: 1409 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Florida
Raven96
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. I am so sorry. Wishing you strength for what's ahead.

ETA: I just read your profile. Unbelievable! He is not worthy of you, and I just cannot believe he did this again.

(((Hugs)))

[This message edited by Raven96 at 8:50 PM, February 14th (Friday)]


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7769 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((143)))

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ugh... (((143)))


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5978 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really sorry about this turn of events, 143ANF. It really sucks.

A part of me also feels thankful that you got the proof. It hurts like hell, but it gives a definitive answer...and that is a blessing.

(((((143ANF)))))


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3893 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((143ANF)))) Sending you strength, honey.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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I think I can
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope this solid proof brings you peace. Stay strong. ((143ANF))


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. (((143ANF)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17851 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to live with an uneasy feeling after DD. Always on edge. When I found the proof there was almost a sense of relief. I did not know what the future would hold only that he was soooo not a part of it.

Sad but empowering.


There is life on the other side of hell.

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Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((143ANF)))

Take care of yourself.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 785 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
143ANF
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone.

The anxiety is gone. I know now what path to take.

I was in total shock at first but now, I feel relieved.

It's a damn shame.

I can walk away knowing that I have gone above and beyond what anyone could have expected from me. I gave him chance after chance, year after year.

I wanted to believe him so badly but there was a part of me that this time around kept everything separate. The only thing that is joint is the new car he "bought" me but I'll take care of that when the bank is open.

I'm free.

[This message edited by 143ANF at 12:54 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]


I've gotten off the crazy train and I'm loving living life.

Posts: 1409 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Florida
norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is sad to have to be grateful for this type of pain, yet it's so much better to know. I hope your clarity gives you strength.

On (one day) to new beginnings. You deserve a great deal more and you will get it.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((143ANF)))


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1882 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 3:18 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. Sending you.peace and clarity to get through this new journey.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5134 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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