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User Topic: Why it's a great day
roarlouder
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Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First Valentine's Day on my own in 11 years. It was never a big deal for us, so the day hasn't been a big trigger. But, the day may have meaning to me now. It's the first "holiday" since I left.
First one in at least 5 years, probably 11 years, that I have t spent with someone who was lying to my face. Sending someone else cards and gifts. Spending the day with them in a hotel while I was at work.
So it's a good day. Because its real.


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So it's a good day. Because its real.

You've got it now. (((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9815 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
roarlouder
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Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I have my moments! Tough days to come in the next week so I am soaking up every wonderful moment of happiness.

And it is true. I'd rather be by myself, in my cozy new PJs, with popcorn, wine and a good movie than lying next to someone, giving them my heart while they are a lying, cheating, coward (see the anger and resentment snuck in there)


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I loved reading this. You weren't kidding when you chose your username!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Most excellent. You're sounding strong!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2080 | Registered: Jan 2013
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