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| Posted: 8:30 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014|
My stbx sent me flowers at work. I was not impressed. It made me feel very awkward. I texted him to say not necessary and he replied that he thinks of me and feels so bad how much pain he put me thru and how he was brain washed. I asked 'by who' and he replied 'her'. really. can he not take any responsibility for his actions! this makes me so mad and shows me that he still doesn't get it!
Posts: 32 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: the twilight zone
Member # 40306
| Posted: 8:52 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014|
Blame shifting is brutal, isn't it?
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
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Posts: 1729 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 38378
| Posted: 9:41 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014|
It sounds like a pity search. And attention seek.
And maybe like he wants something. Possibly forgiveness.
Crickets are good. Also helps put boundaries back up.
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Posts: 2134 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Member # 32554
| Posted: 5:05 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014|
Well, I suppose if he honestly thinks of his dick as his second head, then sure, yeah, maybe her mouth qualifies as a "brain wash".
I hate that they think we are so stupid.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 9314 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 40115
| Posted: 5:09 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014|
You deserve someone with an actual brain and will of their own. Not someone who thinks with his dick.
Edited to correct stupid typos.
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.
Posts: 1554 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
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