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User Topic: A good week
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Restraining order vacated on Thursday. Yesterday I spent 6 hours at the lawyers office, half of which had my STBX in the other room. We were able to hammer out a parenting plan that will be filed in Probate next week.

Spent my first Valentine's with my girlfriend last night....art museum and dinner.

And in 5 minutes I get to drive to hang with my kids, in my house, for the first time in two weeks. And that will last until next Friday based on the new parenting plan.

Even STBX's text an hour ago, that they had dinner with her AP last night ("just so you know"), didn't phase me.

Good weeks are possible.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 698 | Registered: Aug 2013
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This could be the beginning of a pile of good weeks for you.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1929 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass, hopefully. I'll take this one for now. Apparently she filed a criminal complaint the same day she filed the RO, based on an argument last September. The judge hearing the RO didn't see the incident as proof of danger to her, but who knows what the district attorney thinks. My lawyers told me not to worry about it.

So more hell to walk through at some point, but for now I'll take the win. It's good to be in my house. Missed the kids... And my pup.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 698 | Registered: Aug 2013
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