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User Topic: Prayers needed, please
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My girlfriend's husband suffered an aortic dissection on Friday afternoon. It's a miracle he's still alive! He made it to the hospital, it was diagnosed correctly and he underwent 7 hours of surgery to repair the damage. He is in critical condition and has had some setbacks. Low grade fever, and today declining function of both kidney and liver.

You guys are the best at sending up healing prayers. If you can spare the prayers, we really need them! His name is Dave.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8033 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holding your friend, her husband, and their family in my thoughts. ((((sadtoo))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10430 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers Sent


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3028 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
turtle72
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for Dave and family!


Me: 41 BS/WW/BS
2 kids 9 & 11, 3 steps 20, 8 and 3
BS 1st DDay 10/14/08, 5 mo. PA w/ MOW
WW 2nd D-Day 3/22/10, my exit A with HS BF
Separated 4/19/10
Married H #2 10/8/11
BS latest Dday 12/28/13 - PA w/ single COW

Posts: 2207 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Massachusetts
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and mojo.

Not unusual for kidney function to decline, even to the point of needing dialysis from this. Especially if he went a long period of time with a low blood pressure. Usually function returns as the body heals and recovers.

((((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8744 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent - please let us know how he's doing.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4620 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/n
Thanks for that information! That is very encouraging. I am sure they had him on a lung and heart machine the whole time during the surgery. They had to cut out the bad part of the aorta, wrap mesh, etc. I sure there was much more involved as the surgery went on for 7 hours.

Thanks for the prayers everyone!!


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8033 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24601 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending Dave and his family positive mojo...

(((sadtoo)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3623 | Registered: Oct 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:10 AM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for Dave and those who love him.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers too.

My uncle suffered this too. It was touch and go for awhile. But it has been 6 years now and he is doing great.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Jan 2010
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending my prayers along too.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52737 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing thoughts to your friends.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lots of healing thoughts! lots and lots of them!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8462 | Registered: Apr 2008
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update: Dave is holding his own blood pressure today. oxygen levels are better, only dependent on ventilator 45%, the drugs are working and lots of fluids came off. Temp is down this morning. He needs to wake up and recognize everyone. Kidneys and liver function needs to improve and he needs to respond to outward pain. He has a long way to go, but it seems things are heading in the right direction.

Thanks so much for the prayers and good thoughts!! I know Dave's family appreciates it.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8033 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending healing energy Dave's way. My father survived an aortic dissection in 2007, so very scary. Wishing him and his family the best.


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1684 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like he is doing well.

One of the patients that I bonded with the most was a guy who drove himself to the ER for back pain, while he was actively disecting. It was a long long road for him, due to multiple unexpected issues, but I can honestly say he was one of the miracles I have witnessed.

I hope your loved one progresses quickly, and recovers soon.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8744 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for Dave and his family.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1310 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for continued healing for your friend.

(((sadtoo)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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