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User Topic: Bs needs FWs help...
DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A BS needing help from all FWS....Any advice you would give to a WS wanting to R. Specifically to do with "friendships" of opposite sex, or situations with OW/OC.....

Any advice would be apprectiated!!




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
Prayingforhope
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your wayward should find his way to the Wayward forum. Everything they need and more is there to support R. Good luck.


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

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DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, February 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, im hoping I can get him on here....problem is, most the time he is unwilling to admit he still has a "problem".


I just read your story....the way you talk about your wife is a lot like how he talks about me and the things hes done.

Wish you well and hope your healing!!




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He needs to read "Not Just Friends".

problem is, most the time he is unwilling to admit he still has a "problem".
Thing about this is, if he sees nothing wrong with himself, why should he change? His changes have to be from the inside of himself, or the change is not real. Kwim? The saying "You can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink" is very true in this case. Not saying that to scare you. But to prepare you. Until HE decides he has a problem, until HE makes the changes, it would be in your best interest to keep your shields up and your guard sky high.

Introducing him to SI could be helpful. Have a game plan and boundaries for one another. Will he know your username? Will you know his? Will you stay off one another's threads? That kind of thing.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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