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User Topic: Earning the BS back
wert
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like your distinction Sisoon, and the clarified direction the thread has taken.

Me too...I liken it to the journey post discovery. There are stages like in grief. It's messy, non linear but one thing, like anger, may be very useful at one stage and not useful at all in another. It evolves and has life.

Good stuff...thanks folks...

take care...



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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But 100% perfection - is that something any WS wants to live under?

He is free to leave at any time if he doesn't want to meet my expectations.

I said it my post perfection isn't attainable, but it's what I expected. Obviously those two things don't work together. I told him it was up to him to figure it out. Maybe he was 99.5% perfect. If I set the bar at 90% then would he have only been 85%?


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