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User Topic: Getting it rubbed in your face....
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like your STBXWW may be driving a Yugo instead of that Jag pretty soon....


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6520 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear "hoovering".

What an idiot she is.


k9

[This message edited by k94ever at 4:48 PM, February 24th (Monday)]


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6579 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord have mercy brace yourself. Sounds like that crash everyone predicted is coming sooner than expected. I hear the hum of the hoover coming at you.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I smell a carrot. Leading to either love bombing or Hoovering.
Don't take the bait!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5256 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Leia
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend of mine nailed the situation, and I think her words apply here, and goes along with what others have previously said: "We have hit rock bottom. We have no other place to go except up. OP hasn't hit bottom yet." Maybe this is the beginning of her crash that others have predicted? I don't know, but like others, sounds like she didn't have that great of a time.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's a word for a woman with a Sugar Daddy: PROSTITUTE.


Keep calm and carry on.

Posts: 49482 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
msk99
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh SI Community, your crystal ball was bang on again.

CRASH

She came by last night to pick up some clothes for the boys and it happened. She fell to the floor crying......pleading and begging me to take her back. Saying how sorry she was for hurting me so deeply and she will re-build my trust in her. Just wanting me to give her one last chance. I know her bullshitting and when she is telling the truth, and this was pure, raw emotion coming out.


BS (Me): 40 STBXWW (Her): 40
M: 15 Years, 2 Awesome Boys
Divorced

Five simple rules of happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.


Posts: 712 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Alberta
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back away, Msk99.
Raw emotion does not equate remorse.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6520 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rot roh.

Danger, Will Robinson. Danger!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21068 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Run away, run away, run away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6579 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Leia
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay strong! Don't give in to the Dark Side!


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
5454real
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know her bullshitting and when she is telling the truth, and this was pure, raw emotion coming out.

Gotta ask, does it matter? Where are you in this? You ok? A lot of us had the *hope* of a last minute *stay of execution*.

Gaby hit the nail on the head.

Raw emotion does not equate remorse.

Be careful.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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