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movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got that job in DC that I posted about before. So I took this week off of work, packed up my son and drove to Maryland to look for an apartment right outside DC. Found a perfect 2 bedroom/ 2 bath with daycare the next block. I will be taking the bus to work every day so I put my car in storage mode. My monthly expenses will be cut by almost $1000 and my income increased greatly. Now that the lease is signed, I am going to work on snow balling debt I have and getting 70% of it paid off by the end of the year. Now that I don't have that money sucking asshole draining me because he wanted to buy Jay Z tickets when the rent is due , I will be able to get really ahead financially. I am very excited about this!

This is going to be a great year for me.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 638 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for moving forward!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52324 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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jemimapd
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Truly happy for you! The future is bright.


Jemima Puddleduck is a trusting soul....
DD 1 Dec 2012; Divorced 11/13; 2 children
Me: BS (47) Him: WH (52) Her: 3 PA's
Ex bought a house, The Money Pit With Mold That Will Never Be Finished. He's living in the basement.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Dec 2012
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful. I'm excited for your new beginning.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 902 | Registered: Mar 2013
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful. There is nothing like seeing that debt just melt away. Did the same for the last two years, am now debt free and am working on building my savings. Good luck to you!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1257 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone. All isn't well in unicorn fart land and I am sitting lovely- new job, new location, fresh start.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 638 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
Livingalie2014
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Default  Posted: 12:54 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! That sounds like an amazing, best wishes to you and your son. It took a lot of strength to do that!


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Posts: 55 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Lost
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 4:20 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brilliant! So happy for your NB, it sounds wonderful .

I too am focusing on paying off debt (will be done in less than 6 months), had no idea how much beer and whores cost until I stopped having to pay for them.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 740 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo!! This is awesome.

You're going to love DC. I lived there for 3 1/2 years - if you want recommendations ever, let me know. I miss the restaurants...sigh.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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ErinHa
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Default  Posted: 6:40 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great News and now you can look toward the future the way you want it to be!


ME--BS 46years old
HIM--WS 48 years old
3 Kids--DS11, DS13, DD15
Married 13 years, together 15 years
1st Dday 6/7/04
2nd Dday 3/13/06
From 2006 on too many to count (gave up)

Divorcing


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