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User Topic: The Best Thing I Ever Did...
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...was listen to all the good advice I got here. :) Thank you to all of you for speaking up. Now, that I'm no longer a prisoner, it was a shame I was living a lie, in pain, and allowing my children to be mistreated. FTG! My job on this Earth is to protect my boys, from anyone! Now, that I've taken a step back, I can see I was being abused, taken advantage of, manipulated, and controlled. I'm stronger than that and luckily I don't need him in any shape or form. It's only been a week, but I feel so free and utterly happy.

So, thanks again everyone, I couldn't have done it without all you, especially Nature Girl, AJ's mom and tushnurse. If it weren't for you AJ's mom, asking me what I was gonna do about "That?" and telling me to get an army, I don't think I would have had the courage to do what I did. I'm so thankful for you ladies, it brings me to tears.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 11:58 AM, February 20th (Thursday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Remember honey, YOU did this! You fought your way to this new place and are building a beautiful life for you and the boys. That's all you, liberty.

Brava!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25249 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're welcome, but you know what? YOU did it, Liberty. You did the hard work. It takes courage. ((((HUGS))))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9629 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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