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User Topic: I get to sleep at home tomorrow
Prayingforhope
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, it's not permanent. No, I have not been given the gift of R. No, my BS won't be in the house, but...

I'm taking my boys on the annual family vacation on Sunday, and my BS told me I can stay in the house for the weekend before.

Who ever thought such a major HIGH could come from something so simple as sleeping in your OWN HOME. Makes my realize how far I have fallen due to my A, but I'm not letting that take away how special this moment is. Sleeping under the same roof as my kids - yippee!!!

Now for the low. This is all possible because my BS pulled out of the annual holiday (months ago, right after DDay). She is taking a private holiday to an undisclosed location just for herself. So me going home is actually more about me babysitting to cover her vacation, but that won't spoil it in the least.

The win-win, she gets even more of the space she needs and I get to be with my kids. No, it's not a family, but it's not all bad.

Will we ever be on vacation together again? I pray and hope so but guess what, I honestly don't know if it will ever happen again. I've left that part in God's hands and trust he'll let me know what he decides!

Onto vacation...


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

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sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another positive post from you pfh. I'm glad that you can see this as a win, win and that you get to enjoy the comforts of home before your trip starts. Have a great holiday!


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1871 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
nevergiveup10
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand what a big deal it is to sleep in your own house and wake up to your kids. I'm happy for you, enjoy it.


WH 39
BS 34
D-Day July 15, 2013
Together 10 years
Three great boys 8,5 & 2
Working on R

Posts: 99 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: East Coast
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's fantastic, glad you can take so many positives from it.

Enjoy your holiday!


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1234 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
scream
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you. Enjoy your time with the kids. Just be in that moment. Have a wonderful vacation

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Wayflost
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! It's nice when we can truly see the positives in the midst of all the negatives we have caused.


Me: WW
Him: BH (totalheartbreak)
Both: 30s

Appalled by my actions, and the choice to set off several atomic bombs in my life.


Posts: 391 | Registered: Dec 2013
CryingEyes
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great opportunity to spend with your children. This sounds like a great time to give to your kids. Enjoy your holiday with them and make some new memories you all can share.

So me going home is actually more about me babysitting to cover her vacation

I'm having a hard time understanding why you would label this time with your children as babysitting. You're the father, not a babysitter. Are you having some resentment towards your wife because she doing something different this year?


Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Posts: 1254 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: WA
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crying, I think PFH means his W views it as babysitting because ordinarily he wouldn't be in the family home. I presume it's sadness rather than resentment that she isn't coming with them on the holiday.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1234 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
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