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User Topic: It has begun - XH is now CCing wifetress on emails
lastdance
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she has no legal rights on your kid-----she is his and your daughter-----she is not to be at parents conference....I had to instruct the school personnel not to discuss anything if she was there----they were to inform him that the childs progress was to be discussed only with legal parents and she was not a parent to my child------she never went to another conference--ignore him----be careful what you write,,,,if you ever go back to court------be very,very brief,do not engage in lenghtly explanations-----schools have web sites ,he can get info from there no need to contact you----keep your daughter busy ,busy----mine is so busy with activities that she misses many visits with him[awwww]oops sorry ex-------PLEASE REMEMBER YOUR CHILD IS YOURS AND HIS ONLY

Posts: 152 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: orlando, fl
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My ex gets her POS to write her poisonous and nasty vitriloic texts and emails to me whilst pretending I don't realise it's not her. It's so obvious because the wording is so very different to her normal vocabulary

This was my situation with my XH. When she started making decisions regarding the children for him. I went NC! When the kids wanted to talk to daddy, they had to go thru her! If NW doesn't give him her blessing regarding his kids-he doesn't do it. Not even a trip for ice cream with a kid can be taken without her permission.

Things like talking to / seeing his sister, his parents, even his grandchild are forbidden by her.

As the kids get older, they get tired of going thru NW to get to dad. She monitors his phone, mail and social media.

It must suck to be him! I could not imagine living like he does.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5017 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No - I had these children with him, not his whore.

I would be waaaay creeped out if my new husband cc'd me on comms about his kids with his X. I'd want to know - yes so maybe a BC but copying me in? IMO that's tacky as bro.

If my SO asked to be cc'd in emails to the sad clown I might agree to BC just to keep him in the loop but not CC because it's tacky even though he won't be an OM.

Now if he happened to remarry a decent human being who became a part of my girls lives I probably wouldn't mind interacting with her - I still don't think I'd be parenting in a triangle. I didn't want three people in M - I sure as shit don't want three people in D.

I'd completely ignore the CC as it clearly shows the level of trust between them. If she doesn't trust him with an XW who knows what he is imagine the leash she has over his other interractions? See it as just that, a leash - on him. NOT you.

He may be doing it to yank your chain but it's more likely he is doing it for her benefit - whatever the hell that might be.

She'll soon learn that no matter how much you watch them these parasites always find a way to act on their Wayward thinking.


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