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User Topic: Ow told her H she would never stop
I.will.survive
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm new to your story and very confused by the line in your siggy:

DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 same OW in my hotel room on our vacation.

You started this thread yesterday? But there had been no contact since Feb 8th?

Did you mean 2013 I hope? Because I can't figure out how your H could be showing true remorse in less than 24 hours!


Posts: 530 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
Breezy150
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The hotel was in early January when he was still talking to her. I just didn't find out until this week. I do have proof that he cut off contact with her before I found out about the hotel. Now we have sent the official NC also.


I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo


Posts: 539 | Registered: Feb 2014
Breezy150
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I consider my DDay the day I found out not the day it happened.


I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo


Posts: 539 | Registered: Feb 2014
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would just go to the police and get their help instead of lawyer. In my state anti stalking laws are strict. The guidelines in our state are if you or H feel harassed call the police and tell them situation. They will want to see evidence of separate contacts and if warranted the will put her on watch list. First step is they will visit her and tell her to stop or serious legal consequences could occur.

I agree.....My FWWs BF would NOT accept NC. He even began texting me in an attempt to get me to toss her to the curb...making comments that "could" be taken as threatening....not really directly - but close...

You may need to google harassment laws in your state - they all have them...but the police sometimes aren't very familiar with them....but they are on the books. Save and print proof...you will need it...


Restraining orders take lawyers...cost money....and don't have really much "bite" if ignored.... Harassment charges are criminal charges, carry fines and imprisonment if ignored - and there is no cost to you...

good luck....

Bufffalo

[This message edited by bufffalo at 8:58 PM, February 22nd (Saturday)]


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R started 11/10/08
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