Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying



Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library


Contact Us
In Association with
Infidelity -
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
Newest Member: qwerty22 (45695)

Divorce/Separation Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: success in D, a small triumph
♀ Member
Member # 42137
Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, I am so envious.

WH makes a third of what I make, just like your situation. He had the affair, just like your situation. Wish he had the balls to just walk away. I'd have some respect for him if he did that. But no, in the last few years, he has liquidated his pension (he's getting mine you know), has stolen $90K from our credit margin from under my nose (yep, I'm technically responsible with him for that debt), he made me pay for his move and security deposit (a 2K/month high-rise no less), or else he wasn't going to move. Already demanding CS (since the credit margin is now frozen), has not contributed any portion to the kids' tuition yet, and I am paying all the mortgages and household expenses. (Having a pity party here, sorry!)

You effing ROCK. It was swift and brilliant. I really really appreciate the art of what you did. Congratulations.

I am thinking though, it would hurt a bit to know she wanted out so badly that she would sacrifice all that just to get also have my compassion.


me 56
WH 57
married 19 years
separated since 8/2013
D FINAL! Sept 10 2014
D-day Dec 21 2013 (after separation)
2 sons 15 and 12
OW = family friend and WH work colleague, going on many years (I was clueless)

Posts: 77 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: canada
Topic Posts: 21
Pages: 1 · 2

Return to Forum: Divorce/Separation Post Reply to this Topic
Go to :
© 2002 - 2014 All Rights Reserved.