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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nope, no kidnapping... as long as there's no court order outlining custody, either parent can have the kids and not have to turn them over to the other parent.

Just remember that goes both ways... if your H has them, you're out of luck until you can do something about it.

Good luck... did you go back home? Or are you somewhere safe?

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15413 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping that you are with a lawyer and getting the legal documentation that you need! (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got the PFA today, and I'm surprised that it was granted so quickly. The judge said she felt that my son and I were in danger, but that it would only be granted temporarily. I have to go back in 2 weeks so we both can speak to the judge.

I'm nervous and I hope the PFA gets granted for 2 years = maximum time. I didn't have time to see the lawyer today, but I plan to set up an appointment this week to discuss custody and the divorce. I just don't see why a man that cheated could be so possessive of me. He texted me last night to say that if I'm ever with someone else, he will kill them and make me watch. I haven't gotten anything from him since I saw the judge, so I feel a little safe for now.

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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take a screenshot of the text and save it. Show it to the judge.

Posts: 1731 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, gather your evidence and pile it up. Stay hidden and go underground if needed.

Love yourself. You're worth it. Face your self. You need to do it.

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