WH has a thing for electronics/TVs etc. the new one will barely be free from its box and he will be talking about the next one he is going to get. I never understood that.
Me: fBH 46
Her: exWW 42
DDay: Nov 1, 2012
Divorced: September 17, 2013
Saying someone doesn't "meet your needs" or they want to "have sex more often" is vague. Unless they listed some stuff and you specifically said "hell no, I aint doing that.." then those statements are a set up for failure. A WS cant get mad their BS didnt give them what they wanted when they never said what they wanted in the first place.
[This message edited by NikkiD at 11:20 AM, February 23rd (Sunday)]
Fast forward to 2011,,,he told EVERYONE who suspected he was having an affair that he could not be having an affair because his D***K wouldn't work anymore. THEN,,, when it was proven he was having an affair, he told the exact same people that I hadn't had sex with him for years (the same time as exhibit A stopped working).
Everyone thinks he is a joke (OW wanted him, she's got him) LOL
The commonality between the WSs is shocking sometimes.
I truly wonder if I will ever know what a healthy sex life with appropriate boundaries looks like or if I will ever have the opportunity to experience it.
Right now I can't even think about a relationship. I'm still in love with my WH. I'm still healing. I'm still fixing the things in myself that need fixing.
I'm not in a hurry. I'm taking "relationships" off the table until my kids are all graduated. (2016) I will re-evaluate then.