Yes GG, There is no point in MC if she is still in the 'FOG'. Don't waste your cash.
Maybe down the line you can get some MC but first start with IC. Actually MC might be harmful is she goes in there blaming you for her A.
You need to see some true remorse. LIke she is so sorry to have blown up your family life, not regret that your figured out that she had fucked you over. There is a difference.
Save your cash, when you see true remorse (and you will know, trust your gut) then its time to see a C together.
Good Luck and please protect your heart.
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