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User Topic: Prayers, mojo, whatever you got!
luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been MIA on SI recently because I've been struggling with my break from XSO back in November. This has been the hardest breakup I've ever experienced and I've just been no good to anyone, even myself.
I decided I needed some quality time with my close girlfriend so came to Florida for the week. I had a wonderful time and feel like a lot of healing has taken place. But right now I'm waiting at the airport in Tampa, flying home from vacation a day early because DD needs me.
I got a call from her H on Thursday, she had a seizure and had seemingly lost all memory since her last seizure 22 months ago (caused by hormones from her IUD). She was very upset seeing her now 2 yr old child and was very confused by all the changes in her home. She slept most of the day but had some periods of wakefulness in which her memories were very sporadic but she was piecing things back together. She had another seizure last night and when she woke she didn't recognize her H, her home, her dogs...nothing. He took her to ER and called me on the way, she sobbed "mommy, I'm scared, who's going to take care of me?". I calmly told her that her H loved her very much and he would take care of her and I would be there ASAP.
She had another seizure in the ER, which expedited them through the 3 hour wait time. They gave her anticonvulsants and sent her home with instructions to follow up with neurologist.
She is 14 weeks pregnant, her H has been researching and thinks the seizures are hormone related. He seems to be holding it together pretty well and I know I can't do anything for her but I have to be there to hold her and calm her fears. She may be 29 but she's still my baby.
So, prayers and mojo are much appreciated.


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1028 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((luvbug & DD))))

Sending strength and healing thoughts your way. This is a lot to deal with.

((((luvbug & DD))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((luvbug and DD))))
Sending prayers, mojo, and hope.

Posts: 33897 | Registered: Mar 2011
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending all my prayers for healing!!!

Seizures are truly scary!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24347 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((luvbug)))))))

She has already been thru so much, and now this??!!

Try to stay calm. You will be home in a few hours and then you will be able to hold her hand and make her feel safe.

Sending major prayers and mojo your way


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17605 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((luv and DD)))

Sending prayers


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51510 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
mysticpenguin
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omg - I'm so sorry, I can only imagine how scary this is! (((((Hugs))))) I hope the docs have answers soon!


Betrayed

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and mojo for you and DD.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4850 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Scary. Sending you all good thoughts


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1592 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Texas
luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went straight to my daughter from the airport, spent all evening helping her piece the last 8 or 9 yrs of her life together. She is very lucid and you would never know anything was wrong with her except for the missing memories.
I got back to my apartment at about 10pm after being gone sine the 15th and my apartment was broken into. I'm at my mom's for the night. I'm a wreck, I don't know how much more I can take.


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1028 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
really trying
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LUVBUG)))

I'm so sorry.


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10390 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How terrifying. Sending prayers for your whole family.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16416 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((luvbug & DD)))) Sending healing energy for you both....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15105 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How scary! I hope your DD is quickly on the mend, luvbug. Sending strength to you, your DD, and SIL.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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BAB61
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wow ... lots on your plate .. many prayers and much mojo ... (((luvbug0915)))


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
roseguide
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((luvbug0915)))))) Prayers


D final 12/3/12 6 months and 4 days from D-day
My only missteps were; 1. Listening to lies because I didn't want to see the painful truth, 2. Letting it go on this long, 3. Being capable of love beyond all reason and condition - Eumenides, SI member

Posts: 183 | Registered: May 2012 | From: New Jersey
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((and mojo, an strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7799 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((HUGS)) I'm so sorry!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6543 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(( luvbug family ))

so scary. lots of good thoughts for you all!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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sadcat
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((luvbug)))) Sending healing and peaceful thoughts to you and your family.


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


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