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craig2001
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IDK - How are things going with this weekend coming up?

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craig2001
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IdontKnow - How are things going. This is that weekend and I was wondering how you are doing?

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idontknow
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Craig and those who have checked in with me. The short answer is that my W and I had a very good talk about what I had seen and I am satisfied that there is no A going on. She acknowledged inappropriate behaviour but I accept it was benign. We actually had one of the best talks ever.

She is away now. While I am still slightly anxious, that is based more on my history than on a real concern. We are in touch regularly and she is clearly accountable.

Thank you all.


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jb3199
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are in touch regularly and she is clearly accountable

Good. But remember--poor boundaries=poor decisions.

Communication is key. You need to feel safe in your relationship.


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craig2001
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to hear you are okay. But there are some things I dont agree with. For one, the things your wife said about planning on meeting some guy at this hotel. That is more than inappropriate.

Did you find out WHO this guy is and how she met him and why she is talking to him.

And the fact she is with her friend who most likely is having an affair on this trip.

I hope things turn out okay.


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