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User Topic: OW sent email to WH about meeting up
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NC-means not seeing talking texting. He fails and I just know I don't want him doing it. I tell him to tell me if he is still with her so I can decide my future. He obviously doesn't want to tell me the truth. So I need to make my own decisions.
I need to work on my plan. Break it down very small so I can see some progress.
I need to put statements, account numbers down. Work on asserts. Things to get the divorce started. I plan on dissolution and not sure if that will work with his personality and possible NPD.
What else?

Me: BS-55
Him: WS-55
Married: 35 years
DD 36, DD 26, DS 22, DD 19
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw an email from OW saying she can't make it tomorrow night after all
Where there is smoke, there is fire, 100% of the time. This email is pretty telling, he's still in an active affair.

And he's had numerous affairs on you, he's telling you who he is, and he's not going to stop.

[This message edited by sparkysable at 12:26 PM, February 24th (Monday)]

D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do everything you can to protect yourself emotionally, physically, financially.

If you're seeing texts and he is doing nothing but telling you that you didn't see what you saw!!!!! Hello- YOU KNOW THE TRUTH!!! Don't let him take that from you!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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