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User Topic: A six year old ripped out my guts
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ran into STBX in laws yesterday, including my beautiful princess. STBX has a gender ambiguous first name, like Pat or Chris. My princess told me "guess what? There's a new jojo and his name is ????? Just like my aunt ?????!"

I smiled. I kissed her on the forehead and said goodbye.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Artemisia
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, I need help understanding - The OM has the same name as your X????

I'm sorry sunsets. It's extra painful when the person ripping our guts out is doing it so completely unintentionally (hence the six years old). This is hard. You really took it like a champ.


Posts: 112 | Registered: Sep 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((sunsets))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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RealityStinks
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry man. That must have been rough. Sounds like you handled it well though.

Posts: 414 | Registered: Nov 2013
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two months ago this may have put me down for the count. Yes Artemesia, same first name. My princess didn't know any better. I'll love her forever for showing me my path.

It's a good thing now. Last bridge burned. I emailed STBX today. Deadlines and instructions. I have no idea if cunada told her about the exchange. The legal process is in motion as of today. It will be simple. No common property or debts. I'm burning it all and going home.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh sunsets, I am so sorry for your pain. I am however glad you found your path.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1724 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
persevere
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((sunsetslost))


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4463 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all. An thank you Irish. It took the wisdom of a six year old to set the path. Who knew?

And she was right. There is a new jojo. A jojo that's been humbled. A jojo that's gained a wisdom, humility, passion, and strength that will serve me well for the rest of my life.

[This message edited by sunsetslost at 8:48 PM, February 24th (Monday)]


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Sunsets)))


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
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