All I can say is WTH, you delusional idiot!!! I have tried in the past to work with you and you were too consumed by her and your own agenda to care about me or DS. You thought I would just cower away and take whatever you offered, which wasn't much, and I should be happy with it. You thought I should be happy for you and that I just needed to move on. You are the one who got the lawyer in the first place and filed for D when you said no lawyers and you wouldn't file yet, so I got a lawyer, I can't help that she is smarter than yours. You call working with me changing absolutely every paragraph in my proposal to something entirely different. WTH why would I call you all it will end up in is a fight you f'n douchebag. How the D becoming final is suppose to help your relationship with DS idk. Maybe your relationship hit a snag because you haven't bothered to come see him in almost 7 months. You haven't been to one football or basketball game. You know who is at every one of them, who is at every practice, every doctors appointment, everything, me. But you think because you pay CS it makes you father of the year. I have so much more I could say but instead I'll just stay quiet.
Sorry I wasn't intending to turn this into a venting session but I had to get it out. I just want to scream at him.
"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
They are CLUELESS! (((Lost15)))
He says we can agree on everything ourselves without our lawyers and that if I would just work with him the way he has been trying with me it could be over quickly and DS and he could have a relationship again.
I also wanted to let you know that I received the same plea of "how about we work together without attorneys" bullshit. He DOES NOT have your best interest and would NEVER present a proposal that reflects what you are entitled to.
Bravo on the crickets. He won't "hear" what you are saying anyway and will get a kick out of making you scream at him. Vent as much as you like here.
myowndystopia, thats what I really don't understand,if he wanted the D why doesn't he just agree and move on. Good luck with yours and I hope it goes smoothly.
"My L is reviewing it"
dmari, all he has done from the beginning is try to blame me and make me feel guilty. Unfortunately it has worked at times, but I've come a long way since then and it doesn't work quite as well, especially since I send everything to my L. The DS part is what has infuriated me the most, also. He tells everyone I am keeping DS from him and not letting them have a relationship. DS is 15 years old and has a mind of his own.He doesn't need my help to realize dad hasn't bothered to even try to see him since shit hit the fan, but lets blame Lost15, everything is her fault.
[This message edited by Lost15 at 9:10 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)]