Topic: Just one positive message for a change today ....
Member # 25460
| Posted: 11:44 AM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014|
Maybe its just my imagination but it seems like we have a lot of hurting going on here this month and so, I would like to post a positive pic today.
There comes a time when we need to stop, breathe and re-frame our experience as a WS. Like the saying goes, the difference between a rock being a stepping stone or a stumbling block is you.
Each day here can be a small miracle. Each virtual ((hug))is a miracle. Each time our spouses cry, its a opportunity for us to partake in the miracle of healing. We can be a small miracle for our BS's. Every day full of grace, gratitude and support is another miracle. I want to watch a miracle happen in my life today. Where did you find your miracle today?
Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Posts: 3226 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Member # 28156
| Posted: 12:18 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014|
I agree...Thanks..MY H's job has been a huge part of our problems, due to constant travel.. drinking out every night....After praying alot, and 30 years, the company has been sold....Hes terrified for his job stability...I see it could be something entirely different..I hope the next lessons are not financially draining. I feel calm.
a trigger yesterday
Posts: 885 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
Member # 30314
| Posted: 12:26 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014|
Love it!, thanks HUFI!
his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
4 kiddos in lower 20's
ďSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."
Posts: 4484 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 37091
| Posted: 12:50 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014|
Thank you Hufi.
Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild
No longer together
Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.
Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.
Posts: 2630 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 35566
| Posted: 1:01 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014|
thanks for this.
Me: fWH/BH 46
Separated transitioning to D
Posts: 723 | Registered: May 2012 | From: L.A.
Member # 39665
| Posted: 5:31 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014|
Like the stumbling/stepping choice analogy. Good one to visualize.
And yes, in my limited window of observation SI and wayward are brimming with deep mind body soul hurts recently.
It's like some field hospital in a bad dream of a war movie. Too bad it isn't a dream.
2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 50. Her: BW, 49. Married 19 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.
Posts: 403 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Suburbia, New England, USA
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Member # 42505
| Posted: 12:20 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014|
Good one -Thank you Hufi-Pufi
Time to focus on the everyday miracles. May we all reap them in abundance today!
Me -WW - 49
Him -BH -45
DD - 1-21-14
no children together
M - 3 1/2 years, together 7
Posts: 46 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: CO
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