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User Topic: What makes you feel loved?
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Things like waking up my first morning in our home after the move and he has dug through a bunch of boxes to find my tea making essentials and laid them out. The way he prefers to stand with his hand on my wheelchair rather than sit down across the room. He always says it is no trouble at all to do things for the one you love.

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus

***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
Remarried 2/14/14

Posts: 2295 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A hug, an unexpected text, a kiss just because, an inadvertent brush against *ahem*, anything that shows that my SO was thinking of me and wanted to connect.

Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 725 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are a lot of things about my SO that make me feel loved. The one common thread to all of them is she will put my needs first (as I do for her), or maybe a better way to put it is a lack of selfishness.

A small example is that I work nights and we are in the midst of a cold miserable winter. Last night I was showering and getting ready for work and she said she was going to go start the truck so it would warm up for me. I told her she didn't need to do that (I am kind of old fashioned ). She replied "you would do it for me" and was out the door.

Lack of selfishness!


BH 50s
xWW 50s

Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012

4 kids all adults.

Married 22+ years.

I have moved on and life is good!

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