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User Topic: finally, my NB ring
inconnu
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Happy  Posted: 8:20 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5 years ago, around my birthday, I started thinking in terms of a 5 year plan. I was still married, but in what deep down I knew was false R (but wasn't ready to admit that yet). I also knew that regardless of whether my marriage survived or not, my life was going to drastically change over the next 5 years.

And well, I was right.

So now I've got this big milestone birthday next month. Things haven't happened exactly how I thought that would. Somehow though, I've still managed to check off most everything in the plan.

And I am embracing this birthday, celebrating not only my surviving the past 5 years, but also the new beginning I've built for myself. Instead of a freakin' midlife crisis, I'm having a midlife adventure. Life is good.

Here's my birthday present to myself...

[This message edited by inconnu at 8:21 PM, February 27th (Thursday)]


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12168 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful! Aquamarine?


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Remarried.


Posts: 2244 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
better4me
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE it!!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3216 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful!! Love, love this!! Congrats on all you have accomplished. Early Happy Birthday, too!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2391 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, aquamarine. My birthday's towards the end of March, making me an Aries.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12168 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
workindad
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great idea, congratulations to you!

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh, nice! Congratulations.

Cars, rings, guitars, we rock NBs around here.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17589 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

we rock NBs around here.

that we do.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12168 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just beautiful, inconnu!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lovely!!!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Jan 2010
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!!

For what would have been my Silver Anniversary, I bought myself a very nice stainless steel mandolin (kitchen slicer)! I am so proud of it and every time I use it I think "I made it! I really made it!"

I hope you enjoy your NB ring as much as I enjoy my NB mandolin


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful! What a wonderful acknowledgement of your brave journey. Happy NB


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely gorgeous and amazing inconnu!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4618 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
really trying
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

very pretty inconnu


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10397 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 499 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lovely! Aquamarines are my favorite. You've got great taste


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8462 | Registered: Apr 2008
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful!


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is beautiful!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4186 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice!

Looks great on your hand...you could be a hand model.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21075 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's beautiful!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


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