. This is the first time I've been involved with a married man, and I don't want to get involved with another one!!
If I am not mistaken, in a previous post you said you have been the OW to "taken" men before.
I think that your claim to enjoy being a "slut" is bullshit. I think many women convince themselves that they are fun and free and easy and sex is just sex. Free spirits!
That's fine and good. But eventually you may tire of being not taken seriously, not having a real R, always being the ONS but never the girlfriend, being the OW, the mistress, the joke.
I guess I am worried that you feel like this is the way to feel valued or to get attention. You have admitted to a pattern of behavior that suggests a lack of confidence...and perhaps you deliberately go overboard with men to prove yourself.
So I guess I would ask you to really think about your behavior and how you act towards men, and are you truly ok with that?
Even if you are truly OK with your behavior now, you may change your mind later.
I would caution you about these men in your office. If you present yourself as easy, they will see you like that.
You are smart, you are an engineer. Don't you want to be respected at work?