So Weirdness today...no real question. I just need to tell people who will get it.
My X and I started dating about a week after my X's roommate/BFF started dating his now wife. This roommate was best man at our wedding. He moved away shortly after the wedding. He moved to the town I live in now. The Bff's wife never liked me much nor I her.
They happen to have moved to the town I live in. They are into triathalons and in particular the ironman tris. Obviously they work out a lot. I have lived here nearly 3 years and I have not run into them. Well Today on the 6yr antiversary I see the wife at the Y.
Its not a big deal. She didn't recognize me and I dashed into my class quickly. I didn't feel the need for the awkward exchange.
One of the things that I have loved about living here is no trace or reminders of my X. It really helped with the last bit of my healing. I just find it slightly irritating that they are here and that they spend time at my regular place. Oh well....that's really all I can say but I sort of feel like he will never be gone.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler