I feel completely destroyed by the way wh speaks to me. The example is this:
Since getting the baby belly. I am as large at 20 weeks as I was when dd was full term (twins will do that). Some days I just stand sideways looking in the mirror in awe of how quickly my body has changed and how beautiful it is.
Wh comment "yes dear you ARE fat!".
If dd says anything about how large my tummy is wh is sure to comment that mommy is getting fat.
In reality I am not. I have actually been steadily losing weight to the point of having the doc weigh me twice at my checkups.
I have told wh thy his comments are hurtful but it seems to have fallen on deaf ears. Only when I turned the tables and made a comment on the body of a man in a movie did he seem to get it...