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User Topic: Made *the* vet appointment
notmeanymore
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For my 20 year old companion and was I tell people 'the most successful relationship I've ever had with a male'.

It's breaking my heart. I just lost his sister last week.

I've lost my crazy cat lady status in less than 2 weeks.

I know it's time but it still sucks.


"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((notme))

I'm so sorry for the loss of both. It's horrible.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7638 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes it does.

I'm so sorry for you, but you and your baby know it's time.

Just be there for him/her. Let your face be the last they look at before they cross the Bridge.


{{{hugs}}}


k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6534 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((not)))

I'm so sorry.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((notmeanymore)))


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((notmeanymore)))

I had to do the same thing recently with my 14 year old diabetic kitteh. I'm still thinking about her every single day. It helps knowing she is released from her illness and health concerns. My thoughts are with you.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
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Posts: 3123 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

20 years! That's a long time for a dog.

What kind of dog is it? So sorry.


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thisissogross
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry, what a wonderful long life you gave them. I hope you find peace soon.


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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I lost my cat of 14 years due to cancer last summer. It does hurt, and I'm so sorry.
(((notmeanymore)))


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notmeanymore
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Spike was a cat.

He went downhill very quickly from this morning. I actually bumped up the appointment time and then just drove over with him even though it was an hour early. I figured a hysterical woman with a dying cat might get me in sooner. It did. He was completely unresponsive and I just didn't want to drag it out.

I'm glad I was with him. I found his sister dead and I felt badly that I had not been with her when she passed.

The only reason I was home to witness his decline is because of transmission troubles. While having your car break down sucks, I feel lucky I was given those extra couple hours with him before he got really sick


They both were ridiculously spoiled and loved, in that aspect I have no regrets.


"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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Kodi
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((notmeanymore)))

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Elecin
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry about your loss.

I know how you feel!

I still get sad when I think of my pets passing and it's been a few years.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I had my fur baby for 11 years when he passed unexpectedly... I cried like a baby all day.

I still miss him... He was almost like a dog (even tho he was a cat)


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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million pieces
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for you loss


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1244 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Notme)))

As hard as this is, you're giving him the greatest gift of leaving this world with dignity and love. I'm so sorry that you're faced with this difficult decision.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 2:33 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)]


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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((HUGS)) I'm so sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear this. I had two Siamese who lived very long lives and went over the bridge within a few weeks of each other.

We had a lovely lady vet come to the house, we all had a shot of whiskey and let them go.

It was a very special moment. (((NMA)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17381 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, March 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((not me)))))
That is so painful for you. You know he just couldn't stand to be without his sister.

That is remarkably old for a kitty, you can be proud that you provided a great home for them.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8425 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, March 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((notme)))))))


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, March 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwwwwww, I'm so sorry, notme. You will receive a PM.

My daughter has a brother-and-sister pair of Bengal tabbies. I so fear this will happen with them soon as they are getting up there in Bengal age.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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