XWW called me up. I listened to the message. It was about DD and it seemed reasonable to discuss it over the phone (it was a little complicated), so I did. No boundaries were breached. She kept it on subject and was pleasant.
(basically DD is acting out a bit in school and we compared notes on things she had told us)
So that's good.
Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).
D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013. Moved ~1000 miles away (as the crow flies) Jul 2014.