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User Topic: T or F? potential employer can check your credit score
Helen of Troy
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Question  Posted: 9:05 AM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True or false, a potential employer is able to and may check your credit score?


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very true.

And many do.


AJ's MOM


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True. Mine did as part of the background check, but I had to give permission first.


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sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True but you must sign an authorization before they can do so.

sunandmoon


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getnbtr1
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True.
You have to give permission, but if you don't, then no job for you I'm guessing.

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ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't be too scared of it. Some jobs require it, yeah, but I got my current job when I had a credit score in the 500's (bunch of charge offs/delinquencies) and it's a pretty good job.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in banking, so it's a given. Poor credit means no job in my field.


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foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In the uk it's a different credit score than lenders would see, less detail and usually a lot higher even from the same credit companies.


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True. You have to provide your consent. If you decline, though, you will probably be out of the running for the job.

Depending on the company, they probably don't care if you have some missed payments or minor blemishes. I think they are looking for big things - like liens or bankruptcies, etc.

I work in banking and they look to see if your credit history makes you high risk for stealing money.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, many do. My husband was denied a job due to his credit once.


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DDay 2 - Jul 12
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K Phantom
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True,
Discrimination at it's worst. I hear that folks are now being denied jobs because of their tobacco use.

I remember going over resumes with my boss in his office and the hr lady coming in and telling us that one of the candidates had fine credit. I said something to my boss about it and he just said that's the way it is now.


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Her WS
Kids 0
Married 15 yrs 02/14/1993
DD#1 3/29/06
DD#2 6/23/07
D 4/15/2008

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True. I will keep my political opinions of this out of the forum (as appropriate).

However, you must give authorization which means that you can provide an explanation in advance.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

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womaninflux
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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very true. They want to see if you mishandled company credit cards from previous employers or have missed payments or filed bankruptcy. In the past, this kind of stuff was a huge red flag. Now that the mortgage crisis happened, it's not as uncommon for someone to have a foreclosure or many blemishes. It's still not great but I think employers have become more lenient. However, if they have a choice between someone with GREAT credit and someone who doesn't have decent credit, all other things being on parůmy guess is they will choose someone with great credit. Better risk for them.


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, March 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's like a vicious circle. You can't pay your bills because you don't have a job, which is why you're looking for a job so you can dig yourself back out of the whole, but they don't want to hire you because you have bad credit, because you didn't have a job, which is why you're looking for a job....etc. etc. etc.

With that being said, I finally got a job at a bank, in the mortgage fraud prevention department. I'm glad they took a chance on me. If they ran my credit, they must have seen numerous late mortgage payments, collections, etc. and hired me anyway. If they didn't, which I don't think they did, score for me!

Now I can finally dig myself out of the hole and pay my bills and fix my credit.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

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