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User Topic: Chicago area G2G - June 28 - Pictures begin on page 22
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me three.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was excited about finally meeting you Jrazz! You're awesome! But I still fervently hope it happens one of these days.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you won't be there, abby.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aww. And you were another I was super excited about meeting, NIK.

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So....I'm scrambling for a sitter.

My top 3 choices can't do it. Going down the list. Feeling nauseated. The Mama Bear control freak in me is about to stroke out.

Sitting here making bracelets with DD. Was so proud of myself. Made a nifty Dodgers one specifically for Spazzie. Then I went backthread and realized she is most definitely NOT a Dodgers fan. Oops.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's not just not a Dodgers fan. There's something in my blood that rejects it. You'll see at the party, sisoon and I will have to talk to each other from across the room of one of us will burst into flames.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also - sitter for the G2G weekend??


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We don't, just yet, but finding one won't be hard


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
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Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mama bear - Aub and J MUST meet. You MUST get (a) sitter(s).

There's something in my blood that rejects it.

See, now, that's just wrong. The SF vs. LA rivalry should be child's play compared to Polo Ground vs. Ebbets Field.

Remember what George Washington Plunkitt said - 'Say, I'd rather take a Hottentot in hand to bring up as a good New Yorker than undertake the job with a Brooklynite. Honest, I would.' (See, for example, http://www.gutenberg.org/files/2810/2810-h/2810-h.htm, but there are other easily accessible sources.)

That's mutual disgust and contempt between Manhattan and Brooklyn, very bad stuff. I would hope that SF and LA don't even dream of that much hate, but if they do, they ought to acknowledge they're just imitating the originators....

Plunkitt, BTW, defined the difference between legal and illegal graft. Great book, BTW.

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:14 PM, June 6th (Friday)]


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DDay - 12/2010
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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jpapa and I have to eat in different corners of the restaurant when we all hang out on account of the Stanford/Whateverschool thing. (Vrazz and Crazz usually sit with HIM... pshh.)

It makes conversation tricky but I always tell the waitstaff that he's paying and then ditch before they make it over to his table.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mama bear - Aub and J MUST meet. You MUST get (a) sitter(s).
Working on it.

My initial sitter was all, "Just buy two more tickets. Make it a family trip. I mean you're already spending that much money anyway." Wt...that's completely beside the point!

Laying the fear aside. Trusting the gut. I can let go of control. I think.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You two got this, Aubrie.

Also, 'buy two more tickets' is NOT a thing many of us can 'just do'.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dang it! We almost brought the kids, including DD 22 and her room mate. They are awesome baby sitters. DD is a lifeguard and volunteers in the ER for premed, AND they all love museums and doing kid activities.

We were going to let them go to the baseball game but sit elsewhere because DD's room mate had a fit when we told her we were going to see the cubs.

I talked knight out of bringing the kids because they want us to take them to Universal Studios in July/August.

You want me to sent the big girls up there Aub's?


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Default  Posted: 1:21 AM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sigh, gotta edit the Menz thread. DGD is going to arrive the 27th(unless I can contrive bumpy motorcycle rides earlier ).

I'll send pics, you guys do the same.

Can't happen two years in a row right? *See* you guys in '15.


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DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
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D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

545 - Mexican food and bumpy motorcycle rides. Just sayin.

Aubrie - Don't tell razzie, but I was a Dodgers fan in my youth.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

'54- Was looking forward to meeting ya...but you have your priorities straight, and that's a joyous occasion.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK - I'm speechless. When I move in with you, I get your room and you are sleeping in the basement till I sort this out. You can have NIKkat.

545 - I feel like being a jerk for being bummed since having a new grandkid is such a blessing. I'm sure there will be another G2G in that area someday!

[This message edited by Jrazz at 11:54 AM, June 7th (Saturday)]


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You want me to sent the big girls up there Aub's?
No. I need this. It's a growing moment. Don't give me a crutch Woman.

54, best reason ever to miss the g2g. Baby pics are mandatory.

Three weeks peeps!!!!!


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nineteen diggety-days, y'all.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yikes! I hope it doesn't take us 20 days to get our place into shape....

I see dust all over, and 6 weeks of NY Times's first sections. (ADD - can't quite finish 'em....)


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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