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User Topic: Happiness is....
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...Going to the local country bar with a new friend (female) last night, and getting to dance with all the fun, good dancers. This becomes possible when one is no longer married to the grumpy, bad dancer!

It's also nice to reclaim this place and activity, because it was something I loved before I ever met XWH. And this bar in particular, because we went there a few times with OW and her boyfriend at the time.

I've been there a few times since the D... but I dunno. Something about last night's outing just felt extra good, like a true new beginning for that part of my life.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 912 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, March 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 770 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great, gypsy!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"the grumpy, bad dancer"


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 471 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
persevere
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this post - I love to dance to two step and nothing is worse than dancing with a bad dancer, especially if they're grumpy!

So happy for you!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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