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User Topic: Dating while separated
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not tongue in cheek at all JG.

A few members have gone on to remarry and find happiness after a very short time. I sincerely hope you find what you're looking for and that nobody gets hurt in the process.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17684 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I met this guy, he's extremely attractive, I only ever slept with my WH and this new guy has a big dick. I want to give it a try and see what I've been missing. It's fun and exciting! Lol he lives in the city and seeing him there is fun and adventurous and it's better than sitting around bored. If it were to end tomorrow I'd be upset but I'd get over....I mean, I kicked out my partner of 10 years and haven't looked back so what's some guy I've only known a few months?

Well, with an attitude like that, what can go wrong? Does New Guy know he's just a fling? I'll echo FF and hope that no one gets hurt.

I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20422 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
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Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nope, wouldn't even consider it. My record speaks for itself. 5 long term relationships, 5 cheating women. I'm actually attempting R this time. If this doesn't work out, I'm going to worry about fixing my broken picker before I start thinking about dating again!

JG, I'm a Catholic also. While the church doesn't recognize a civil divorce, there's a process called annulment. Pretty automatic when adultery is involved.

end t/j

BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3152 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am now divorced but didn't feel ready during the two years we were separated and haven't felt the need since the 1 year since divorce. Not that I still have any feelings for Sir Shagalot but I am simply not ready and possible never will be, who knows.

Sir Shagalot on the other hand moved in with OW2 a few weeks after D-Day and got engaged to her a month before our Divorce was finalized. So I guess being separated means different things to different people. Certainly being married does.


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

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