I can't be the only person that this crappy stuff happens to! Even from a past relationship- it's like a damn ghost swooping in saying "oh, hey! Did you forget about me? Nah, I'm still happy to haunt you!"
...it's like a damn ghost swooping in saying "oh, hey! Did you forget about me? Nah, I'm still happy to haunt you!"
Betrayal and Abuse...The gifts that keep on giving!
Feel better ((((Dragon Bunker)))). You have been heard.
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.
If you aren't communicating, you aren't having sex.
Are you communicating? Looking at one another when talking about this or just talking about in passing?
It sounds silly but make an appointment to talk about it.
One thing that we do that helps a lot, and it sounds silly, is to put a "marker" on the staircase handrail that says, I Want Sex. If the other person is up for it, they put their marker up there too. And this handrail is right in front of us in the living room, so it's impossible to miss. We use figurines of Micky & Minnie Mouse (long story). If one of the mice is up there but the other person isn't up for it, that person has to let the initiating person know and re-schedule a time that will work for both.
Sounds silly, but we do have fun with it. Those darn mice have shown up in cars, lunch boxes, jacket pockets, etc.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
See a child's toy-wonder who is signaling for sex.