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User Topic: feeling so depressed tmi
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 2:35 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I don't know where to start. Are relationship HAS been so good i don't know what to think. .was putting one child to bed and he was fondling his man parts so I decided to maybe surprise him and jump on him and make love. ..he yelled at me and told me to get off. Well u know what im sorry my hormones are on the high because i am due in 6more weeks to give birth. .. well we go to bed and he's sleeping and I see him fondling his man parts again. ..I get up to pee and he's doing it again. Like seriously am I really not that good enough..... feeling like shit .....at least he hasn't been in contact with his who're .... I would HATE knowing that she was in his dream or got him off...


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 2:48 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((brokensunflower)))

he yelled at me and told me to get off

^^^That was shitty and very mean. Sorry, but he's a dick.

Is there a reason why you don't "try" to talk with him about his behavior, both the yelling and the lack of interest?

Communication, it's vital.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2109 | Registered: Nov 2011
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 3:16 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've tried he tells me that its him not me and not to take it the wrong way. ..sighs


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 4:18 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow that must have been hurtful. He's not very nice. I would think if there are 5 kids to feed bath and put to bed and your preggers woman still has enough energy to go a round, most men would be thanking their lucky stars.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4919 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please don't take this as me defending your husband. Are you sure he is fondling his man parts in that way (like stroking) his self?

I happen to be an expert on the the subject of cock and balls since I have them and sometimes it does feel good to just give them a good scratching! My wife has on occasion accused me of doing the same thing but all I was doing was giving them a good scratch for an extended period of time.

I can almost guarantee you that that was what was happening. I doubt he was trying to pleasure his self and leave you out of the action.

Being rejected hurts though I know, I've been there plenty of times. I hope things getter for you and good luck on the baby!


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 589 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
wanttogoforward
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry that you felt rejected! He was very insensitive to your needs.

He should have been grateful you are still wanting to even touch him and at 6 weeks from birth want to have as much sex as possible considering that birth will shortly stop and sex and a new baby makes one sleep deprived and exhausted! Hopefully he will think about these things and apologize.

I do sometimes catch my H just adjusting, scratching, or rubbing his privates around and it does not always mean he wants sex..... so try not to take it too hard.


Posts: 1178 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still lost
DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im glad im not the only one who gets wierded out when my man has his man parts up while sleeping. It pretty much happens all night, but if i notice his breathing fast or "twitches" in that area ill wake his ass up!!!

That is terrible, try getting on in the middle of the night... Hes lucky, my WHOLE pregnancy I dont want to have sex!

[This message edited by DTERMINED2SURVIV at 9:50 AM, March 9th (Sunday)]




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I forgot to add that I also agree that he should be grateful that you even allow him to breath the same air as you. I'm sorry for your pain and hope you didn't take my first reply in jest. I hope that you are able to work this out him.


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 589 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well with all honesty I don't know what to think which way to turn ect. He hasn't apologized or anything like that. ..im hoping for tonight to be better. But a girl could only hope. ..


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
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