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DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Content  Posted: 12:36 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Something I read that I liked....May be good for people who are ready to let it go!

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us.

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I dunno. Pretty simplistic. If only...
But trying to determine which direction your life takes requires soul searching.
Although there have been people who have walked out of my life and I'm fine with that.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's


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DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I know, easier said the done, and sometimes its always not as clear as we need it to be to just let go....

However the point is, im not going to force someone to stay!




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
lastdance
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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that is it.......that is the law of the land....you cannot make anyone love you....you cannot make anyone stay with you....LET THEM GO...LET THEM GO......when that expiration date comes....THROW IT OUT....LET IT GO

Posts: 153 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: orlando, fl
harry&george
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks DTERMINED,

I needed to read something like this today. I was just in NB lamenting the loss of my first post divorce relationship. Even though I had started to see it was not right for me, it hurts.

I am working on letting go.


ME: FBW 38
3 gorgeous kids
Divorced!!!

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